Frequently Asked Questions

Is tantric massage an erotic service?

No, tantric massage is not an erotic massage. Unfortunately nowadays a lot of services call their offer “tantra” or “tantric” because it might sound more sophisticated or esoteric. That of course causes a lot of confusion and misunderstanding of what tantra really is.

It is very important to us that our clients understand the purpose of our service. As we offer an authentic tantric conscious and holistic bodywork rooted in awareness and healing arts.

For whom tantric session?

If you are longing to encounter yourself in your fullness, to touch and open sensitive heart space within, to become more open to yourself and the world around, to connect to the source of inner power, you are in the right place. This is the place of healing and transformation.

We are inviting you to undertake the most important journey in this life – the encounter and making real friends with yourself.

What issues can be addressed in our sessions?

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Fears
  • Mental related and body related tensions
  • Restlessness
  • Psychological issues
  • Feeling of loneliness
  • Being disconnected from mind/body
  • Not feeling the core and own center
  • Lack of power
  • Insecurities
  • Grief, anger, afflictive emotions
  • Attachment, impulsive and compulsive behavior
  • Disconnection from feelings (being the person who is in the mind, lost in thoughts)

What sessions lead to in the long-term:

  • Manifesting life, being a creator of your life in mystical powerful ways
  • Connecting to life force energy – nuclear power within
  • Being in the flow, transferring from fighting low vibrational 3rd dimensional reality into 4th and 5th dimension of effortless manifesting through surrender and focus
  • Creating sharp focus and clarity in all areas of life
  • High vibrational living through activation and healing of inner feminine
  • Broadening abundance container within to create more abundance outside
  • Activation of inner masculine by women and activation of inner feminine by man
  • Cleansing permanently low vibrational heavy karma and accumulated unprocessed emotions
  • Reconnecting with your inner truth
  • Being master of your own mind and body through embodying full energetic potential
  • Shadow work – embracing unwanted dark parts to transform mud into gold and draining emotions into a powerful ally

What is tantric massage and life force energy?

Tantric massage is a technique to awaken life force energy / Shakti and to load up the body with vital energy. It is important to know that most people (around 99% of population) do not have access to that energy at all. Usually it is stuck in the pelvic floor and never is accessed fully. In its blocked state it creates confusion, stickiness, urge and problems, as desire takes over our life. Other version is that we feel no life force energy at all, we feel depressed and low on energy.

Tantric massage awakens life force energy and next moves it through the whole body. After it is released, it starts to move through the body up to the heart, liberating the obstacles on its way. As a result the energy of lust is transformed into bliss and we finally can experience a great amount of peace and concentration, which in the essence of our true nature.

What distinguishes Tantric Healing Amsterdam?

We are both adepts of traditional Vajrayana Tantra path, we have years of education and completed numerous self-development retreats as well as tantric massage trainings, we are regularly attending meditation retreats in Buddhist Zen tradition.

Experience, professionality and education are the foundation in Tantric Healing Amsterdam Temple. We specialize in meditation, breathing practices, matriarchy temple arts practices and inner tantric yoga.

Our practitioners are dressed 

We are not offering “exciting” or “fun” experiences. Our masseurs are dressed during a tantric session, creating a safe container for the receiver to experience their own energy and have a deep inner experience.

What is a healing session?

The purpose of healing session is to release painful memories from the body and DNA to experience profound transformation and healing.

A healing session is not a tantric massage as it’s aim is the energy cleansing and releasing obstacles. There is little concentration on massage techniques, we use voice, conscious breath, trigger points, de-armouring and vibration to liberate old memories from the body vessel.

How can I feel after a healing session?

Up to several days after a healing session may happen different emotions, such as: anger, sadness as well as relief, joy and peace. It’s also possible to experience different reactions of the body such as: little physical pain in different points of the body where the emotions were stored, like belly area, solar plexus or rib cage. Observe yourself and the reaction of other people on your person after healing. Usually they will notice a shift in your energy.

Often after a session you can feel immediately much better, in bliss – as if a big load was dropped from the body. Because that’s what actually has happened.

How many sessions do I need to feel the difference?

No matter if you choose for a tantric massage or a healing session usually a person needs minimum 3 sessions to feel profound transformational results.

How will I feel after a Tantric Session?

Most people after a tantric massage session feel more relaxed, light, as if something heavy fell down of them. You can feel that the fatigue and tiredness that always accompanied you, disappears, and in its place comes in positive energy for action. You can feel more love and satisfaction from life.

After a session, family, friends and acquaintances may state that something changed in you, for example that you emanate peace, goodness, sensitivity, or that you are more self confident and have more power.

Can I receive session dressed?

It is important to know that in Tantra there are no musts and there is no need to be naked. The most important are your boundaries and respecting them. So yes, of course you can receive session fully dressed. After all are the most important part of the session is the energy work.

Is there an orgasm during the massage?

No. Our tantric sessions are holistic bodywork sessions and do not have “fun” or “erotic” factor.

Are there any age restrictions in order to receive a tantric massage?

Yes. You should be at least 18 years old.

How can I prepare for a session?

Please reserve 30 minutes of additional time for an introduction talk

Please take shower, as there is no shower in the Temple

We suggest not to drink alcohol few days before the massage

We suggest not to smoke at least several hours before the massage

If possible, try to reduce meat and junk food consumption before the massage

Be happy and in a good mood

Where do the tantric massage sessions take place?

The massages are done in Amsterdam, a tranquil space outside the hectic Amsterdam centre. The Temple is situated in a private house. The Temple space is solely used for tantric sessions and spiritual practices such as meditation and yoga. The session is done on a comfortable mattress on the floor.

Can I take a shower at Tantric Healing Amsterdam?

There is no shower in the Temple, that is why please take shower at home before the visit. We use 100% pure natural organic coconut oil that will keep nourishing your skin after the session.

Should I bring anything with me?

If you have a pareo/sarong you like, you can bring that with you. Also a big towel if you like (please note that in the pareo/sarong and towel there could be oil stains after massage). If not, no worries, we have everything needed.

Payment method?

Payment by card (provision 3% if the card was not issued in Holland).

What kind of oil do you use?

Tantric Healing Amsterdam uses 100% pure organic coconut or almond oil.

How to book a massage?

Please fill in the Tantric Healing Amsterdam booking form in our website: We will get in contact with you within 24h in order to arrange the exact date for the massage session or healing session.